Understanding Hatred - the limited feeling.
Last night, I had decided to read the bible. Instead of making me question it, it actually made me believe in it more. It was strange. I guess the reason was all the rambling about how the bible was fake, and giving reasons for it. Making up their interpretations..what they had heard in the past etc. Whilst reading the words in the oldest scripture, and most powerful..I saw that women are supposed to be filled with hatred, or so for the serpent. It made me think about myself, do I feel hatred? Do I know what it is? Do I stop myself from feeling it? Is that a good thing? Am I not whole once I don't feel hatred?
My friend once said "Everyone feels hatred, hatred is a part of life." I tend to disagree with that..I think anger is a part of life, and I think feeling that you do hate is a part of life. But hatred in itself..is just a mirage. Just a figment of the imaginative mind. I have once said "You cannot hate without love" if this is true, which I believe it is. That makes hate...a very limited feeling. It's basically just disliking the person at that point in time, feeling anger towards them..feeling like they just need sometime alone. Which, if you know about Love..you know there isn't a person in this world that can be on friendly terms with another every single minute of every single day.
I think that gets me to thinking about high school...high school relationships never last, or rarely last. Why? Because they see each other every single day, if they can. And if they don't..then they feel it's not enough. Which is not truly love, because they would respect their distance if it was..and still be sad that they aren't there, but being respectful. They end up dumping a person, because they can not see them everyday. It's drama. You need drama in life, why not fill it up in High school? I say, never get your hopes up in high school..but there is a chance you'll make it.
My friend Sami is getting engaged to this guy. And they fight all the time, they still love each other. That's love. Not stopping for one moment that you do not love each other...just because of a crummy fight.
Here are some quotes I made for her:
"Love can not be in thy heart, without anger in thy mind." - KL
"Love can not be in thy heart. Without objection to thee love." - KL
posted by Kasey @ 12:35 PM
2 Comments:
Well put.I've been of the same ideas for a few years now. Someone I knew put it as "Love and hate...two sides of the same coin laid on edge."
Its a funny thing though isnt it? I had a couple of schooltime romances - Frankly I was far to young to actually appreciate them. Mainly I felt a sense of complete embarrassment, combined with an overwhelming selfconciousness - not exactly the best start! I don't think I ended up hating any of them though, which is vaguely positive...but if that takes me back up to the top, I would posit the suggestion I never actually loved them in the first place.
Dantares.
Puppy love, or as I like to think of it, training. I guess some people dont want to dive into the romances of the real world without taking a dip in the kiddie pool and getting used to the water, but I may be giving them too much credit. Fighting is a healthy part of a relationship i guess, depending on how far it goes. Ahh darnit you got me rambling like I know what I'm talking about, anyway, nice post and lets try and keep hate away too.
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